Stop debating the story. Track the pattern.
Decode DARVO, blame shifting, denial, guilt-tripping, projection, and the conversations that leave you doubting what you know happened.
Start with the part you can prove.
Read the behavior. Keep the receipts.
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READ ARTICLE →Stop carrying the whole pattern in your head.
Start one clean record today. You do not need the perfect explanation—you need the sequence.